Relationships are tough and need a lot of effort, but the hardest part is dealing with a breakup and picking up the pieces.

Let’s see how you can try to get over a breakup even when it does not seem possible at the time.

Reach A Decision

When the breakup happens, do make sure that everything has been made clear moving forward. It makes everything so much easier when you know where you stand with the person. Don’t be left confused with so many questions.

A Few Tears Won’t Hurt

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People deal with pain differently but sometimes a few tears can make you feel better. Tears are a sign of letting it out because it hurts more keeping pain inside.

Find A New Routine

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A breakup is always a chance to re-discover yourself. Find a new routine to take your mind off what the situation is. Check out Health & FitnessBeautyFashion for ideas to start a new hobby or your new routine. 

Anger Is Not Revenge

It is okay to be angry but don’t add fuel to the fire by doing something you will end regretting. Breakups can push you to the limit and make us think it is okay to take revenge and cause drama, but it is not necessary nor worth it.

Talk To Someone

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Just because you lost one good thing in your life doesn’t mean you lost everyone else. Talk to your friends and let them comfort you. At the time, you won’t see it as necessary, but in the long run, you will see you needed them the most.


Accept that breakups happen and that if there’s no hope left, then it’s best to let go. Acceptance is key as it allows you to heal faster and deal with the situation maturely.

Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together

Marilyn Monroe

A breakup is never easy for anyone and it definitely hurts but the pain is never permanent. So take one day at a time. There is nothing wrong with remembering the happy moments but know happier days are coming.

Worry Less, Smile More, Don’t Regret. Just Learn and Grow


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Michelle Mchemwa

Hie, My name is Michelle Mchemwa a First year student at the UNAM studying Tourism Management. Being an International Student that can use her writing to express herself elsewhere is really great and I truly Enjoy it. I hope what I write people do enjoy.

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August 2020